I am looking outside my train window, a beautiful view of the green Mountains, typical colonial houses and the perfect combination of clouds. I smile looking at the view, I enjoy the moment, ‘at the same time’ Pyar ke pal’ (Moments of love) playing on my MP3 song by KK. Amazing song, well he sings about how we are supposed to always enjoy the moment and reminds that if u let go off this moment coz of 10,000 things fro tomorrow, then you may never have this moment back. Let it be smiling at someone walking on the road, winking at that ‘cute guy’ on the street or just saying ‘Hello!’ to your neighbour. Well we have no idea how much thee small actions can affect the life’s of someone or our own. I don’t know about the ‘winking at the cute guy, consequences ;)’ but trust me the rest stated will work just fine and would actually make someone’s day.
Like I wrote a few days earlier that we run so fast that we always tend to forget the simple beautiful things like this never cross our mind. I just realised that a thought of someone or something would bring a smile on my face. Only if I cud hold on to this moment for ever but reality drops in….well then I just enjoy the moment not exactly thinking about that tomorrow. I may sound a lil ‘cuckoo headed’ and dreamy eyed but people come on face the fact, don’t you rather just go and kiss that someone special tonight for all the things they have bought into your life’s rather than arguing about ‘When Saddam’s going to be hanged?’. Well they are important issues as well but in the today we live in, I can always say that we live in a very uncertain tomorrow. So go and hug your kids, kiss your loved one’s and cook for your friends (don’t kill them with your cooking…only advised if you are a god cook). Do something that says ‘You are not that prick waiting for someone to Shove a NUKE bomb up your arse. Well trust me those days not very far away.
Well thinking about enjoying the moment and loved ones, I can’t stop notice my fellow passengers on the train seem to be love birds. I can’t stop from over hearing their conversation coz they are indeed pretty loud. This makes me wonder again, ‘Is there anything called True Love’? Because I still fail to understand the soul mate concept. I think two people meet and we work on something…’call it a relationship’…together and discover along time that we fit in the ‘profile and then love happens’. I also listen to guys saying…’dude it was love at first sight’!!! She was a bomb bro…!! Hmm…typical youth conversation…well that makes me question as well what if there was no sight in the first case at all but the chemistry and the connection. Does it matter? We all know that the initial likeness towards someone always comes from the ‘looks’ At least it is indeed one of the compelling factor for anything to grow out. But what if one overpasses that phase and connects first. What then? We all know for the fact that ‘ at the end of the day…we all tend to grow one day older and uglier…hmm…well not if u plan on to get implants like Pamela Anderson;)`. No I mean on a general note, our skin does begin to deteriorate someday but why we still tend to look up at the ‘bootylicious’ factor first and then the rest? So back to the point, is there any possibility that one could meet a person one day (or not necessarily meet) who doesn’t stimulate your senses or hormones by the touch or the looks but is capable enough to stimulate your thoughts and feelings? If I am not wrong, I guess this is what people tend name it ‘SAPI sexuality’. I guess we all tend to overlook at this factor in the initial phases but according to my reviews about relationships, love, like call it whatever I have seen, the case with the mind stimulation works out much more fascinating then one can imagine. Well this is this case two people just don’t tend to smile for the heck of it but actually smile coz that’s hat they feel towards life maybe or even each other. This feeling ladies and gentleman is a hard price to pay for. Only if we had Supermarkets selling them!!
I must say I still have my doubts when one of my girlfriend talks about her version of the perfect man. Hmm what is perfect I ask myself, does it lie in the looks or in the thoughts? The whole package is always amazing to enjoy on but come only that was true. Well her definition of perfect might be ‘Blond, blue eyes’ and mine ‘dark and with wits’ so…again we are bought up with a pre-conceived notion of perfect. This is the one of the words that no dictionary can actually define it for you coz it always has a different meaning to every individual. You never know ‘perfect’ really until you bump into that one person, who makes you realise that ‘ imperfections in him/her is what makes him/her perfect’. Well as always I loose out on the actual topic I was talking about but no my fault. It’s just the flow of thought and the movement in my fingers. The connection seems to be unbroken and the many questions I asked in between are for you guys fill in and comment about. Coz every article makes or doesn’t make sense but always a purpose/meaning to it. See if you can find yours in this ‘maze’.
Someone very dear to me said this
‘You like some one for their Perfections and you love some one inspite of their imperfections’. Give it a thought...
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Luckily enough I am the first to comment on this blog :) In today's world the use of superlatives has become so common that people tend to forget what the extent of anything can be, which is why i tend to reserve their use for special moments only and i guess this is one of them :) The article is absolutely fantastic and i mean it !! A lot of people can think and that too great things but it is actually those who put these thoughts into action and make us realise and identify with their existence, that are the best philosophers. Language will always remain to be a restricitve tool for thoughts but the way you have used it to portray for the reader a view of so fundamental a concept is just WOW :)
Love - a very weird concept ain't it !! I mean nobody ever could define it completely, guess thats what makes it so beautiful a feeling (won't call it a 'concept' and ruin its beauty :P) to be close to someone and so madly in love that you would go to any extent to be with that person .... when u'd give up anything to make the one you love happy and smile :) that feeling comes to only a few coz in this world of tension and 'practicality' we have let our sentiments fade away and all we have become are mere puppets in the theatre of life. i hope everybody finds that someone special as i did who opened my eyes to a world i had never imagined before ;-)
I agree that the soulmate concept seems to be a bit out there and that u need to work at a relationship and i also believe that the chemistry that exists between two people transforms this into sth so special that they smile by just thinking of that other person and GOD !! when that happens you just feel bliss :-)
One of the many things i like about this article is the fact that you show how significant those small things in life are :) hugging your loved ones, being with those whom you care abt rather than bitching about stuff .... its so true yet we never realise how distant and cold we become - and its really difficult to avoid this in today's world. seriously, how many of us actually give thought to what we will do for our loved ones today rather than what they read in the newspaper? i emphasise this point coz i know that most probably someone's gonna come along and write in a comment to this blog and bitch about everything and say that narmada is complaining again - so u have ur answer better watch out !! :P
See .... this is sth i cannot do - write abt things in a connected manner (neways am a bit sleepy .... its 4 in the morning for heaven's sake !!) as you have written and yaar plzzzzzzzz so write a book .... i promise to buy the first copy ;-)
will write in more later .... abhi off to sleep :-)
keep posting
ciao
Okay, I just HAD to write in some more and so can't sleep !! ;-) about the fact that we grow uglier by the day and still we crave for beauty .... but then again as you always say that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder .... and the feeling of falling in love and feeling specially placed in someone's life can come only by having the soul stimulated by being with that one person who can make you seem the world to him/her rather than some good-looking hunk/babe . one can flirt for only some time but can talk for eternity and so i agree that the stimulation of the mind is more sensual than the random infatuations we develop. the feeling of knowing that u mean the world to someone just fills u up with a sense of belonging and meaningfulness :-)
we look for perfection .... but in the end isn't it true that 'true perfection has to be imperfect' ?? and i totally see what u mean by the fact abt loving sbd for the imperfections he/she has rather than the positive aspects. ok i think i've spoken abt love a LOT and i better move onto sth different :P
abt enjoying the moment, why can't life be ideal and time freeze when we enjoy that moment?? don't u just hate it when the moment passes and u just wish u had a means of treasuring that moment for life and the best u can do is collect such treasures in ur memories (and that too with a weak one like mine !! forget it !!) why does reality bite ?! but then again, as u say .... time heals all and wid time everything shall fall into place and whatever be the end one must always treasure and care for memories that do not cause pain by reminding us of the past and in this way we can distribute happiness ot others too :-)
I think am gonna bore everybody now :P tho i'll shut up here and wait for more comments so that i get more food for thought :D but before i close ..... an article well written and so natural that it makes it seem so easy though i know how hard putting ur thoughts down on paper can be (yaar had to write a few points on a piece of paper to comment on this blog - imagine how hard it wud be write the whole thing up :P). Its an authentic masterpiece in that there's no urgency but just a sth special that drives u through the whole body without even realising that u transit from one topic to another :-) Keep up the gud work :-)
Ciao
YES you are right hugging pating loved ones makes lots of sence for both, like silence speaks lot,when Language and sound is limitation,we have to depend on other orgons to convey our feelings,every thing has its own effect,we foget every thing and live machanical life
yes it is unfortunate that tomorrow is uncertan,we have to live in present moments and grab as much we can,.....even tresure is present in front of us ..we least bother to notice ,, it remainds me murphys law we always think of bird on the head and forget bird in our hand your article remainds me many things to correct our selves, thanx
more than ugly beauty sex look,perfection imperfecton,action inaction,everybody transmits some thing and recieves something,and depends perfect mach of transmit and recieve,every thing depends where you grown up,boughtup atomsphere what injected in your sub conscience,what refrence stored in conscience, depends for conclusion,nothing is refrence here
everybody is perfect in their own way. one are the other way. silent/action stimulates our thoughts, feelings, sence, and touch our heart, finaly settels with made for each other/love birds
hmmm well i know narmada is busy nowadays so i'll take the liberty of responding to your comment on her behalf :) First of all thanks for commenting in .... really appreciate it. you are very much right in acknowledging the importance of silence and the other senses in terms of the role they play in our lives and the fact that we usually tend to ignore what lies in our face coz we're too busy judging and looking for trivial matters. Am happy that you read the article in true earnest and understood the depth the author intended :) Hope you keep visiting .... will look forward to your comments in the future too :)
Ciao
LOL!!!Kshitij...do u want to buy my blog. Seems like u r more active on it then me myself. Well, anyways thank you so much both of u for commenting and Kish for replyin.
Been hell busy now a days and will blog in soon.
Narmada
Is the blog on offer? Sure I'll take it !! But who the hell will write in then ?? Nah I think the blog's better off with you .... I'll just keep poking my nose in every now and then :D
Sister narmada (you are half of my age) I was searching some thing and end up with your write up, and you are from my,place,(from.Bangalore),,sitting away for from home and doing wonderful job, when I started reading it made me to read whole of your blog. I don’t under stand you are an engineer and authoring meaningful topics, are you authored any book, any of your family member is writer? And you are only 20 years old It is confusing. Many times I also feel writing some times but when I sit with pen and paper, nothing will come out of my mind..
Day to day work pressure will make us to forget simple things of our day to day life,
We need some one like narmada to remind us. we store our own references in our mind and make fence , in daily life we compare things with our references ,any way it is too complicated subject, we can only enjoy reading it commenting is difficult it is narmada’s business to do but one thing I will be a regular visitor to your blog here after
I have seen one of your reader is black man, now I will identify as white man.
All the best keep it up
Hey... YOu white dude!!
I am soo glad you liked i what wrote but how old are you? may i ask? please do visit but i cant promise anything interesting coz my exams are up and i have no time to blog. Thanks for commenting, you sound sooo sweet. Yes i am 20. No nobody is a writer in my family, u jus need to feel it to write it. I am sure you will find this in you one day too. So dont give up pick up that paper n paper, think, scratch ur head but do write. Lemme know if u write something.
Again, you sound very cute, Mr.White guy, may i know if your still in school or further?
Keep coming....
Smiles
i am 40 ,as i told you ,you are half of my age,it is very simple if you double your age you would have got my age, i don't know why are you asking my school etc,i hope you are confused.
yes, your exam is very importent do first your study,we don't mind waiting for your blog.all the best for your exam.
Ooops.....your 40 sorry!!! i guess i was confused...well this comment section isnt for personal discussion so will stop commenting here abt other things other than the article.
Thanks fro coming back!Take care and keep commenting.
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